Everyone wants to live a beautiful life filled with love.But the question is, how many are living a life, radiating with love? In 21st century, with so much of knowledge, intellect, technological advancement, Love has become one of the rarest experience. Love is the only hope of the world heading towards nuclear explosion.
Kindle the candle of awareness to experience love in life
The need to connect is as old as humanity itself
The origin of the world is love. We all came into existence with power of love, not with the power of hatred. Love is the bridge; love is the nourishment of the soul. Love is a constructive and creative emotion; life can be glorified with love.
Love is not imported from heavenyet love is most misunderstood and missing in life for the most. If you are starved for love, it is not because enough people do not love you, but it is because you are not expressing your love to enough people.
Express love, don’t be miser in expressing love and you will be filled with love.The economics of love is that it fills the heart of both the giver and the receiver.
Stop being your own enemy
To experience love, be more loving,compassionate and charitable with yourself. Sometimes your inner dialogues are toxic, consisting of an inner critic and inner judge. Make a conscious effort to change your inner dialogue to one which is loving, kind and accepting. Establishing a self-love practice allows us to fill and expand internal love supply.You cannot give what you do not have. A flower cannot give a fragrance that it does not have.You go on giving love and you don’t have it in the first place, and you go on asking love from others who don’t have it in the first place. Beggars begging from beggars.Begging from a beggar will only result in misery for both. In a world that’s begging for love, don’t be a beggar, be a giver.
You are rich by what you give and poor by what you receive, so enter into any relationship looking at what you can give and not what you can receive. First Tune yourself to the right frequency and vibrate with love. When you vibrate higher with Love, Love came backs to you, but the source may be different.
Raise your love quotient – Be more humane. Be sensitive to feelings of others.When someone is hurt, respect Feelings, respond with compassiondon’t end-up giving lecture on intellect, responsibility, mistakes and character. Don’t be an advisor, be a helping hand. An emotionally starved heart is a heart that is surrounded by crowd of people who have a solution but none who is willing to understand, recognize and respect its feelings.
Learn to keep love alive in the midst of life’s inevitable stressors.
Love seems to ease the psychological burden of life, by providing comfort, inner peace and contentment. In life, you wrestle with your own fragile, vulnerable nature and events that are beyond your control in a dynamic world. Love give you strength to overcome challenges. Love makes our experience richer – more colourful, alive and meaningful. Love affection and care has no diminishing value.
Love is transformational, it leads to personal growth.
Love inspires you to be a better human being. When you strive to become better than you are, entire equation changes. It transforms the mundane routines of your daily lives.You are able to withstand the frustration and pain when you have a loved one standing at your side, encouraging you, and helping us to get up when you fail.
What is your idea of love?
Everybody has their own idea of love. There are as many ideas of love as there are people.There are many, many layers, of love. If you are existing on the lowest rung, you will have a totally different idea of love than the person who is existing on the highest rung.At the Highest peak love is meditation; Love is the step towards Godliness,and at the lowest level it is power politics, it is sex, it is exploitation, a bitter pill sugar-coated.
Is Love risky?
We know that love is risky. The person you love may not love you back. Falling in love means you may experience broken heart. There are no guarantees. Every thing in life is an integrated package, it has its own inherent positives and negatives. It is silly to search for a rosebush without the thorns. Many people spend their lives avoiding emotional risk. Unfortunately, this isn’t possible and this attitude leads to a dull, restricted life.you need to work on yourself to be able to take calculated risks and also to learn to let go.
Love is not a mutual benefit scheme.
Have you made relationships with framework that are comfortable and profitable for you? Let me tell you, People have physical, psychological, emotional, financial or social needs. Most of the people make love relationships for fulfilling mutual needs. people go on fooling themselves into believing that the relationships they have made for convenience, comfort and wellbeing, are actually relationships of love. I am not saying there is no experience of love at all in those relationships, but it is within certain limitations. If a few expectations and requisites are not fulfilled, things will fall apart.Majority of people confuse love and need and that is the reason, People are frustrated in their love experiences. Millions of people have decided to love a dog, a cat, a parrot; it is better to love a car instead of human beings. because you can dominate them well, and the other never tires to dominate you.In deep loving relationships, we deliberately focus on what we can do for the other person – how we can be of service in enhancing their lives and helping them to be happier and healthier. Love makes no conditions, no ifs, no buts. Love never says, “Fulfil these requirements, then I will love you.”Love of this type takes much inner work. Redirect love for enhancing lives rather than using love foryour own needs and insecurities.
Raise your awareness, love is a Journey of Discovery, let your Love be Devotion, instead of manipulation.
Indu Aggarwal
